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How Do I now if he is MR Right!

We get together for many reasons, and not always the right ones.

  • Inevitably the question comes up... Is he or she the one? Let’s examine essential questions that can help you come to the right answer for yourself.

Let’s try to stack the deck in your favor.

The first thing to do is look at the numbers! Yup Men Lie Women Lie Numbers Don't!

When looking at the 'numbers' you can keep it simply by just looking at the day he was born on. You will only have to deal with 1-9 and the relationship between the day you were born on. So if you are born on 8/7/1980 and he is born on 10/19/1981, you would be a 7 and he would be a 1. This is a quick easy way to see your compatibility. Each number represents a planet and the relationship between the two planets are ultimately what you are looking at.

The list of each Number and its corresponding Planet is:

1= Sun

2= Moon

3= Jupiter

4= Rahu(North Node of the Moon)

5= Mercury

6= Venus

7= Ketu(South Node of the Moon)

8= Saturn

9= Mars


After you have that information then you look at more general things that will make a difference in your relationship according to Psychology Today:


Sexual energy is stirred up by the new: new lips, new hips, new eyes, a new embrace and yes, new sex. So it is often not hard to get excited about a new romance. It’s one reason so many fail. People fall in love (including erotic love) with love and not with a person.

Some people are attracted to partners who make them feel safe, while others are excited by that man or woman who they can never truly have. (This is how narcissists thrive!)

As time passes, note whether you remain interested in him or her. And if it’s because he’s not emotionally available, get some therapy. Such relationships may get you good sex, but he’ll inevitably drive you crazy when you sense that you are not as important to him as you may want.

For some, relationships transmute into friendships, where sex becomes a bit off-putting, if not incestuous. Even if you love her, try not to settle for this. With the addition of children, the partnership may grow, but not the lust. Without the glue of attraction, your partner may end up looking elsewhere.